:: Follow The Voice In Your Heart ::

We are the keepers of our own heart.

So what is it about following the voice in your heart?

Some hear the voice but are deaf to it...

Some listen too much to the voice in their head,

they ignore the one in their heart.

So just what is it about following the voice in your heart?

Just ask the keeper of this blog...

The keeper of her own heart.

*the keeper*

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:: Xuanwan ::
:: 12/09/84 ::
:: NUS undergrad ::
:: FASS ::

*loves *

:: my family ::
:: andrew ho ::
:: badminton ::
:: bubble tea ::
:: babies ::
:: singing ::
:: sleeping ::
:: slacking ::
:: surprises ::

*moodswings *

*wishlist *

~~:: finish the whole series of Sex & The City ::~~
~~:: to enjoy whatever modules I'll be doing next sem ::~~
:: not be kicked out of NUS and have to go sell bubble tea ::
:: rid the world of nasty jerks ::
~~:: to get out of boring S'pore for holiday! ::~~

Saturday, January 29, 2005

I just had a friend telling me that her bf has been checking up on my blog and thus, pick on her because of it sometimes. Sigh. Relationship problems again. To me, she has been tolerant and forbearing, and the guy has been putting up with her tantrums sometimes too. But somehow things still haven't been working out for them all this while. There are times when she'll tell me how happy she is with him and how she can see a future with him, but then there are times when he really scares her with his character and attitude. He's a very possessive person and lacks security. In addition, he constantly suspects that she's cheating on him and that makes her very frustrated, coz seriously I can see that the things she do are out in the open and there’s nothing to hide. He's totally paranoid! But even if she takes a longer while to pick up her phone, he'll suspect that she's up to something. It's really suffocating for her. I really don't think I will be able to tahan this if I was her. And I think if she really wants someone else, she wouldn't have to cheat on him, coz she can easily just break up with him and be with someone else. I don't understand why guys cannot think. As we once said in our private joke, guys are like kids, simply stupid. And she was telling me that day that she heard him talking to some girl on the phone but he claimed it was a guy. I thought it was ridiculous too when I heard it. And now instead of going out with her on a Saturday, he told her he needs to go off to church and left her alone at home. Poor girl. I can understand how she feels coz she was cheated on before and somehow the symptoms seem more and more like it, so it's really making her feel terrible in this r/s. and she's too softhearted, always cool down and talk to him nicely when he says sorry. What kind of guy is this who is giving my friend so much trouble!? He deserves a slap! Up, down. centre! What's his problem! He always tells her how much he loves her, and because of that, she always trys to understand him and not break up. But I think if a guy really loves a girl, shouldn't he try to make her happy and not always quarrel with her and leash her up? How to settle down with a guy like that. Your whole entire life will be miserable and when u regret it, it'll be too late.
So.... maybe it's still best to be single... carefree and happy. No one to control ur life, no one u'll need to report ur whereabouts too... no need to tink whether this action will affect him/her anot...

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* xuan * listened
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